“I love you most.” When he says more, you say most and that’s the end of it! Everything you do in my life adds to my happiness, subtracts from my sadness, and multiplies my joy! She still talks about “our kids” and when we get married and everything, so I’m not sure what’s going on. moms a baby FML, By OP, not saying to break up with her, but it might be a hard habit for her to break. An ex and I dated from senior year of high school through senior year of college (18-22); also the first real relationship for either of us. That said, saying “I love you” constantly probably means something different than what the words seem to mean. YOU FUCKING LOVE ME, I FUCKING LOVE YOU, SHUT THE FUCK UP". FML, Today, on my way to work, I realized that I took my Viagra instead of my blood pressure medication. :] We'd been good friends for years first, though. Follow the instructions below, and if your story gets through the moderation process, it'll published in the next 24 hours. Just so madly in love that we couldn't help but say "I love you" every chance we could. He burst into laughter before putting on a shocked face and saying, "Oh wait... You're serious." I wish I could upvote this a million times. But lately I've had to hear and say it like at least 20-30 times a day [or maybe more]. I giggled as I responded to her and mentioned this when she was leaving for work and she ran off silently and sourly. I just don't like "hearing" it. Eg. She's happy and excited and on cloud 9 and she loves you and loves her life with you. you speak English, she speaks French - practically impossible to communicate with one another. Send a private message 29 3 Reply Reply These are some signs she doesn’t love you even when she says she does. Here're The REAL Ways He Says "I Love You" Based On His Own Zodiac Sign. Need help with your relationship? It's not always so clear, though, what a person means when they say that. Whether people admit to wanting to hear it … My girlfriend and I, after many months of planning and deliberation, have decided to take a big step and move in together come June 1, 2009. I can accurately predict when she will say it to me by the tone in her voice leading up to it and the fact that it's been more than 30 seconds since she last said it. Learn how to respond to I love you in a very interesting and adorable way that will surely make him smile. If your best friend says "I love you" after you've done something nice for them, you usually don't have much trouble saying "Love you back!" Good god. Well, I waited 10 hours to be sure, apparently no one here loves you. Press J to jump to the feed. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! To add to that: It takes me a while to genuinely miss my SO, and I tell him that. If I tell her it's getting to be a bit much, she storms off on the verge of crying like I hate her. Goodbye, self esteem. No one's at fault here. 1. When you show too much attention, it can be exhausting. Basically, you feel insecure, so you seek reassurance (e.g., saying "I love you"). I unplugged the second monitor so I could lie on my bed. FML, Today, I was invited to a party, but I didn't attend because my boyfriend would be disappointed with me. Minutes. The memories Let me begin by saying that frequently telling your loved ones that you love them is undoubtedly better than telling them infrequently. Every. I've had such awful relationships that I can't recognize when someone is actually being sincere. We are talking about getting more serious and, while I couldn't leave her over this, I also can't see myself spending the rest of my life being told the same thing over and over and over again. On her lunch break, I get texts, and every day after I come home from work (12 hours since we've seen each other, at most), I get a flurry of "I missed you, did you miss me?". FML, Today, I went to get new shoes. OP probably isn't going to like this but I do think that him and his girlfriend are at different stages in life and you simply can't force someone to grow up. Today, my girlfriend told me to stop saying "I love you" so much because it's starting to annoy her. My girlfriend was very angry and ran away when the wrong girl yelled, "Yes!" Women who love too much tend to exercise this practice because they demand attention or reassurance from the other person, requiring repeated statements of proof of their commitment level or feelings for you. She will value you, so much so that she would never do anything to hurt you. It's the frequency with which she says "I Love You". FML, Today, an attractive guy approached me and struck up a conversation. FML, Today, it was my first day being home after doing a 4 and a half month hike through the Appalachian Trail. Feel like sharing it with the other FML users? FML, Today, my boyfriend and I tried to give his cat medicine. when your girlfriend says that out of no where then she's just trying to express her feelings in oral notation. He was in constant need of reassurance because he was incredibly insecure. FML, Today, I got my crush's phone number. Dealing with immature young women is hard, and we ALL at that age are going to fly off the handle and get all whiney and weepy when we're told we're not perfect. FML, Today, while shopping, I bumped into a guy I knew in high school. :). It's the one book that has helped me and my SO understand each other... and he's not just CLINGY or NEEDY, he just expresses his love in a different way. FML, Today, I decided to be a generous guy and slip a dollar from my pocket to a beggar. As you worry about losing your girl… you think back to the good times you had. Have you just experienced an FML moment? We've been apart for half a day, and on a daily basis you act like you hadn't seen me in months. In fact, as far as relationships go it’s one of the biggest moves you can make outside of getting married. He went on about he heard I'd got married, looked like I'd had a baby, and that, "she looks just like you!" That you need actions more than words right now. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the relationship_advice community, Continue browsing in r/relationship_advice. My Girlfriend Said I’m Too Clingy: 3 Reasons Why She Could Be Right. I agree. Nor should there be any reason to fix something that isn't broken. Oh, that is so cute. And yeah - if this is good worst problem you have it pretty good. Really, it's getting so obnoxious and under my skin that I can't stand it. Download the app for iOS. FML, Today, this guy took me to Denny's on a first date and used a 2 for 1 coupon. Say it with love and she'll hopefully realize. Basically, you feel insecure, so you seek reassurance (e.g., saying "I love you"). You can’t show or express your love ‘too much’. If you respond with anything else they know they ****ed up. It's practically all the ever says to me. If you see that your friends seemed to be wary of your exes, but they are extremely happy for you when they see you with your current girlfriend, then they must feel how good of a match you two are. Technically, when you get into this argument, you both come out as winners because you both love each other so much that you’re willing to make it a competition. She’ll open your heart to emotions. FML, Today, when I proposed to my girlfriend of 8 years, she said no because she thought we were moving too fast. You invest so much." Is it possible her age has something to do with it? FML, Today, I spent 4 hours making a cheesecake for my brother's girlfriend, which she begged me for a week to make. FML, Today, a car backfired as I waited for my bus and I screamed, thinking I'd been shot. But it also does matter if you feel the same and say it to him too? Download the app for Android ( see here ). Of course, six weeks later we were engaged, so... oops. I read this as well, and I enjoyed it. Until it hit my windshield. - United States - Loma Linda. He says if we say it too often, it will become meaningless.” We’ve heard this question more than once and our answer may surprise you… The kid was my niece, and my husband broke up with me 2 years ago. FML, Today, I shattered a coffee pot at work and ended up with a piece of glass in my eye. She squealed as it took flight, so happy to see such a brightly colored birdie fly. Just unrestrained happiness and the excitement that comes with the transition to adulthood: paying our bills together, grocery shopping together, sharing your bed with a SO for the first time. I guess security thought my Michael Jackson crotch-grab was funny, because a printout of it is now pinned in our break room. What about the rest? It was just such a new and exciting time in our lives. Well, tonight I’m making a pretty big move. After my oldest son first started dating his girlfriend, he told me, “You’re going to like her too much and it’s going to be a problem.” I am not entirely sure what he meant but I am guessing he knew I would get attached. In some cases, your constant adoration can just fuel an-already-big ego. It feels like you are looking for reassurance" and see where it goes. So your partner provides the reassurance you were looking for (e.g., they say "I love you" back). Your instinct was right, because it’s good to laugh life off. Thus, more insecurity -> more reassurance seeking -> more insecurity, and so on. FML, Today, to prevent a fistfight at work, I had to mediate a contested debate between two coworkers on what was evidently a very touchy subject: Which is better, the orange creamsicle or the ice cream sandwich? And the last is receiving gifts. It described that people have love tanks, and like a fuel tank in your car - it gets filled up by different things. As I was checking out, the cashier said, "You're going to need more than that to cover up that face." If you cause her to lose too much respect and attraction for you, she will eventually fall out of love with you. Everytime you chase a person, - even a girlfriend - this person's attitudes are going to be compatible with running away from you. Turns out I'd slipped my hard-earned $100 bill instead. I love when I get that random text during one of those off days that just says those three words. I reply with, "I know baby!" Cookies help us deliver our Services. I've grown fond of you too. After my oven breaking and having to buy a new hand mixer, she tells me she's not going to eat it because this morning she decided to try being a vegan because, "it sounds interesting." Doesn't mean I don't think about him or whatever, I just like my own space too and he understands that. Love takes time to grow. Same with the "Love Languages". Acts of Service - doing things for your SO without being asked. Him saying he loves you a lot could very well be what he means by saying it. There is something more going on here than love language. He just wanted (needed) to hear it back. She may love the world, but that is not the love she shares with you—that love is sacred. My fiancé tells me he loves me a lot, but I don't know..I've never had anyone tell me that from the heart so it never gets old to me. Thanks for bringing that up. That you love him too and you dont understand he says it all the time. An ambulance ended up having to be called for one lady. I think there is. ...I don't think it means that. You are afraid that she doesn’t want to be your girlfriend anymore. Don’t try reposting old FMLs, we’re not that daft. Unfortunately, it reacted in a way it never had before: clawed his arms to bits, bit him so hard a tooth fell out, peed everywhere, including on me, and pooped on the carpet. FML, Today, I had to listen to a girl who just came back from the bathroom, talk about the "gigantic massive dump" she took, and even held her hands up to show the size. Feeling a little flirtatious, I decided to blow a bubble with my gum to get her attention. Hugs etc. Maybe instead of saying STFU, you can ask her to SHOW her love in other ways that would suit YOU better? It really does happen; you can be in a relationship with a woman who claims to love you but deep down your gut instincts tell you that she doesn’t. A girl that loves ‘too much’ will never run out of love for you. cue back of hand to forehead and swooning But you are exactly right in how to go about handling this. It looks like for you to question this, you feel he is doing it far more than you. Tags: Girlfriend, Growth, Happy, Love 2 comments. That isn't what he needs to be hearing when it comes to this situation. FML, Today, I went on a date with a guy I met on-line. Your girlfriend has become very cold and distant lately. FML, Today, with a single misstep, I managed to send myself and several others tumbling down a stairwell at work. Wouldn't want to pick favorites... #277 made me lol so hard i fell off the chair XD. He now won't stop calling me "the sexy Hobbit." The best way is to have a kind serious talk with him, not a trap just a confidant time to say your feelings each other. exactly... once a month or so is good. Helped me understand myself much better. cuz that would get annoying, awww sorry to hear that. I completely agree with you! “Can you say ‘I love you’ too much? I accidentally shot the gum out of my mouth onto the guy next to me, spitting all over myself in the process. Afterwards, he told me that he could tell my head was "really in the game" and felt a stronger connection with me now and was glad I opened up and "let go" with him. So your partner provides the reassurance you were looking for (e.g., they say "I love you" back). FML, Today, at work, a good song came on and I started dancing to it. dumb. FML, Today, my aunt informed me that my dad thinks my boyfriend is a loser deadbeat because he hasn't proposed to me after two years of dating and co-habitation. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. But the reassurance isn't reassuring, because you prodded for it. The reason it's called the 5 Love Languages: eg. No you're not a bad person, it bugs me when my SO constantly tells me how beautiful/sexy I am. He actually made my friends uncomfortable as well because he'd do it to me when we were out with them. Thank you, your FML was submitted it will appear in moderation soon ! f my lifw We moved in together at 20, living together for 2 years and we were completely like this! First of all, examine your own behaviour. I asked her how come, she said she doesn’t know, almost like she didn’t realize it. Conversely, OP should (in addition to asking her to show love in a different way) take note that his SO's love language is clearly words of affirmation and work at affirming his SO verbally, as it is probably not his strong-suit. I got bored and started drawing penises with it because they would leave wet marks. It’s like an Italian saying “I think I made too much pasta” You can’t spread ‘too much’ love and positive vibes around the world. This morning, by the time she left for work, I had been up for 30 minutes and she had told me she loved me 6 times, in between her being in a different room getting ready and I eating breakfast. 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